PinnedNü MarriageYou know what would be so much better than our current marriage model? A model where we all pick another person to live with for 1–5 years…Mar 26, 2021Mar 26, 2021
Basics BitchThis week’s SelfWife podcast is a video episode! It’s called “Basics Bitch” and as always it is about several topics, including (but not…Jul 10Jul 10
The Devil CometYou made such an extraordinary mess of the safe space I created that to clean it back up took more than I had left in meApr 16Apr 16
The Menu BusinessMy dad is starting to feel better since his most recent near-death experience in early February. He’s had a dozen ~this is it, everyone say…Mar 5Mar 5
on SELFWIFE, Episode 21 𖡼𖤣𖥧𓋼Hi there, I want to tell you that I was scared to record this episode because of my perpetual fear of getting in trouble, but it ended…Dec 5, 2023Dec 5, 2023
Introducing SELF WIFEHi there, So much has happened since I last wrote to you. Awful, unspeakable things that made me lose faith in Los Angeles as my home…May 11, 2023May 11, 2023
Gerald Was My FriendIt’s not common to be friends with your friends’ dads, but Gerald was my friend. Funny and bright and excellent with words. He was the…Jul 28, 2022Jul 28, 2022
Time To Climb Down, Time To Walk HomeMy dad’s physical emergencies have died down in time to make way for his psychological emergencies. These are scarier. Here’s a glimpse of…Feb 24, 2022Feb 24, 2022